Oct 29, 2009

A wonderful and unexpected development :)

Remember my last post, about the first date scenrio? Well, it has turned into...
A BOYFRIEND SCENARIO!!!
Omg I am so happy. I cannot believe it. And I just think about it and I'm like...this doesn't happen to me! I'm the 1-or-2-week-meaningless-"thing"-girl. I'm not the relationship girl! But, seems things have changed because I feel like this is the real deal. For once in my life, I really have fallen for somebody. I don't even want to say it because I am so scared that I will jinx it and this will turn out like all the others...but this just is not like all the others.
For one thing, it started with a date.
This is a first.
We weren't even drunk! How very strange. :P
So that is the first huge difference. I feel totally different about him. Like, I feel totally comfortable with him and we talk about the most interesting and the most personal things, and it is good. I feel like I can say things without having to worry for any reason. Haha, also he is an American so whenever he says something I don't like I start talking about "those Goddamn Americans" :P
That usually does the trick.
In a very joking, affectionate way of course.
And we have so much physical contact, like he never drops my hand when we might be seen, and we give each other kisses all the time just because we want to...like, all these things that mean that it is right. We joke around a lot too...like, we enjoy ourselves. I dunno, I could go on forever, but yah, like we just go together really well. We are always going for walks and stuff like that too, which lots of people dont like doing so its special to me that he also loves to wander. Omg just everything. And he says the cutest things and is just the sweetest guy. It's weird...the guy who just got out of rehab is like the sweetest guy here. People are always so surprising. Like, there is so much to every person. Especially him, I think.
Anyways, so things are going very well in that department. Yesterday he told me that I should be proud because he had a 2 weeks rule coming to university, and as of tomorrow, I will have caused him to break it. Hopefully I break it by a highly significant amount. Also, I am tired of being subject to, or subjecting other people to, endless variations of the 2 week rule. Perhaps I can tell him of my many experiences so he knows he isn't missing out on anything. :P
Hmm. So what else...well I won't talk about school because I am currently working on essay aversion tactics (not that they need any work- I am already excellent at avoiding schoolwork).
Oh yah, we went camping this weekend! A bunch of us, mostly the same people who went swimming that day, went to Cape Breton and it was wonderful! Absolutely goes down in history, that one. But perhaps I will save that for another time...and I think a bunch of us, a different group, are going again this weekend! I love Kings! :)
I think my roommate is getting a little down lately tho: Goal for next week is to hopefully do something to cheer that girl up! It's because of so much school work, and the glamour of residence life is rubbing off etc. I want her to go back to exciting Gwen tho (not that she is unexciting now, but you know what I mean), so hopefully things turn around for her.
Ohhh yah! And we have found the house we want to live in next year! There are 7 of us who want to live together next year, and 2 of them were walking this morning and found this great 10 bedroom house getting renovated, and it will be available for next year! Most excellent. It is good to know I have a place to go next year. Still not 100% sure whether I will be travelling, but I love the people here and I think it would be good to spend 4 years with them. So maybe 4 months off in between each year will suffice.
Peace!
Love Edna :)

1 comment:

  1. hummm what to say..........OMG Erica, that is so wonderful for you!! :D IM so happy for you, like I said, you deserved moments like this so much! And its fun to see your reactions towrards this, always as funny, I'm glad about that. You also went to Cape Breton, Im sooo jealous, I never had the chance to go there, but I heard so many good things about it. Plus you did camping, thats amazing! Here we had our first snow falling last week (ugh.. so early..) but the weather is changing so quickly, its hard to know each day wether youll wear a coat or a jacket... loll anyways, Im so happy for you, and hope Ill get to meet this wonderful person one day or another.. ^^

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